Shoots: Bride and Groom

For Grooms: How to tie a tie

Can you guess the question that I get every weekend at weddings? There are a ton, but none repeat as much as, “Hey, how do you tie your tie like that?” Now I would be willing to bet there is no way you guessed that one. Ties seem like such an afterthought, but for guys it’s about the only thing we can control on the wedding day. Every wedding I shoot one of the groomsmen, the groom, a guest, or even the bride asks how I tie my tie. My favorite was earlier this summer when the bride asked if I would tie the grooms tie to make sure it looked liked mine. I know you’re thinking what’s the big deal, it’s a tie. If you’re a groom chances are your tie was picked to match the rest of the wedding colors. If you’re a groomsmen, let’s face it, you and your tie are an accessory to the bridesmaids. You know all the other details will be perfect. Your tie should be too.

I can thank my Dad for instilling in his boys the constant pursuit for the perfect knot. Thirty plus years of suits and ties and the man never settled for less than perfection. Three tips he gave us:

  1. The length
    1. The end of your tie should touch the middle of your belt. Yes you can have a giant knot and still have your tie the right length.
  2. The knot
    1. Consider the width of your collar when deciding on the knot size. Wide collars need a larger knot.
  3. The dimple
    1. Take your time. Make it look good. This is a little detail most overlook.

Jeff Mix at Tom James shared these graphics on how to tie a tie. He is a great resource if you’re looking for a new suit for your rehearsal dinner, a new shirt and tie for your wedding day, or even a custom tux.
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Afraid of rain on your wedding day?

You have been watching the forecast for two weeks and the cloud with thunderbolts seems to move off every day except your wedding day. Now you’re two days out and the hourly forecast is released. Mild panic attacks set in as you are not at terms with the fact that it will rain on your wedding day. Or hey, it’s Chicago it could be sleeting. That happened two weekends in May this year. Ok, back to the point where I try to keep you from stressing out. Although our weather is insanely unpredictable in Chicago, it can be conquered with a plan.

Celina and Beau’s wedding morning was gorgeous. When we pulled up to Holy Name it was 75 and sunny without a cloud in the sky. 45 minutes later there was a wall of those black green tornado looking clouds. As luck would have it Celina and Beau are probably the most easy going people I have ever met. They knew I had a plan and really showed no signs of concern. I like to create an A list and  B list of locations to shoot. One for ideal locations if it’s sunny and one as a backup in case we need to retreat indoors. The beauty of it is with a little planning you can bounce between A list and B list locations. We set out for our first location but the rain was coming down in sheets, so we took a little detour. The guys were starving so I figured detour number one should involve food. We pulled up to Corner Bakery and dropped the guys off. As luck would have it we found a break in the rain. 5 quick minutes of shooting with the girls and 15 not-so-quick minutes of eating and we were off to our next location.

Of course the rain came back and we retreated to the Westin River North. My favorite rain day location. It has gorgeous light, a great view of Chicago, and it is covered from the rain. There are some big trees down by the river that really work well to keep everyone dry.

It was really important to Celina to get a picture by Buckingham Fountain. Watching the radar and the sky, since the two don’t always reflect the same thing, I guessed and it happened to be a perfect time to shoot there. We only had 10 minutes before the downpour ensued. We missed the rain and headed back to the hotel. The last shot is one of my favorites from the day. I think it will show even if you have to resort to using your hotel room for pictures there’s always something fun that will come out of it.

In case you still don’t believe you can have great pictures when it rains on your wedding day I included a little video at the end to show just how much rain we were working in. Don’t worry, no groomsmen were harmed or soaking wet in the making of this video. They were under a tree. And yes your photographer should do more than shoot pictures on your wedding day. I will do anything to make the day run more smoothly. In this case I am the umbrella man.

 

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Seeing each other before your wedding? You need to read this.

More and more brides and grooms are deciding on a “First Look” moment before their wedding. If you are planning a First Look make sure you know your photographer is aware and has a plan for you. You shouldn’t have to settle for a boring dimly lit hotel lobby. As you see below we brought Brittney and Chris to a location where they could have their time together and we could cover all the angles. I look for great light and background that compliments the couple and helps us focus on them. I always tell my clients to take their time during their First Look. This is their moment and certainly needs no direction from the photographer. There really is nothing better than capturing a completely unscripted moment in time. The images below make a great album page showing Chris and Brittney’s first five minutes together on their wedding day.

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